Tuesday, April 14, 2015

Lessons

Give your students Oreo donuts from Krispy Kreme and they'll think you're the coolest teacher ever.

The fear of the unknown is a very scary thing.

I'm pretty sure I speak for all drivers when I say this... Alabama needs to bring back full-service gas stations. 

Get to know the candidates in an election. What's their agendas? Where do they stand on "hot" issues? How will them being elected affect you? Don't just vote because of them being Democrat or Republican. 

It makes no sense to individualize a student curriculum and instruction and then force them to take a standardized test.

Standardized tests stink. Just sayin' 

Packing your lunch and totebag for work the night before is a wise decision for a teacher to make.

If possible, always work ahead. You never know when you might have to be out.

Wearing a new outfit and getting lots of compliments can definitely brighten a girls day.

A piece of mail can bring a smile to a person's face. 2 pieces of mail? Even better!

Exhaustion can be physical, mental, emotional, or any combination of the three.

Being a Daddy's girl is a cherished role held by a daughter.

Ignore rude people. Focus on the good.

5 minutes seems like nothing at night when about to go to sleep. But 5 minutes in the morning when you wake up seems like an eternity.

Monday, April 6, 2015

Beyond Me

Too often we post only the good of our lives online. Celebrations, milestones, life as a bed of roses...

But you know. Life isn't perfect all the time. Bad stuff... Hard stuff happens sometimes. 


And right now... Right now my family is facing the hardest thing we've ever faced. And you know what? 

It stinks. ...big time!

But through it all...through the pain...the heartache...the moments of asking Why God... Through it all, I know that my hope is in the Lord.


My dad's in the ICU. We've been told he's nearing the end. He's on oxygen, fluids, and pain meds. He's still a bit uncomfortable. But he's actually sleeping!

It's so emotionally exhausting...


I say that I am prepared to "let him go." But it's hard. 

When he agreed to the DNR during check-in, the reality hit me...

And this reality is harder than anything I could have ever imagined. 


Yes, he's going to a better place. Yes, his suffering will be gone. But it's still hard...


The selfish part of me wants to keep him here. I want him to walk me down the aisle. ...to meet my children. 


But the realistic part of me wants and knows what's best for him. 

I don't want this prolonged any more. I don't want this once strong and vibrant man to just lay up and suffer. 


I want my dad to either be healed here on earth or go on and be healed up in Heaven. I want the pain gone.

Truthfully, I just want the Lord's Will to be done.


I pray daily for his strength and healing. ...for strength for my mom, brother, and me. 


Toby Mac's song, Beyond Me, says...

"You take me to the place where I know I need You. Straight to the depths that I can't handle on my own. And the Lord I know, I know I need You. So take me to Your great... Take me to Your great unknown. It's way beyond me. It's way beyond me."

So yes... This that I'm dealing with is way BEYOND ME. 

So I know I can't make it on my own.


Lord, it's beyond me. It's what You can (and will) do. Help me to trust in you...to put my hope in you.

Sunday, April 5, 2015

Resurrection Sunday


Can you imagine? 

3 days prior they'd buried their Son...their Friend...their Leader...their Brother...their Savior. 

The sadness of watching his horrific death on that cross...

And why? 

It was for them...for us...for all mankind.

He CHOSE to die. He CHOSE to take the place for us. 

He LOVED us so much that He DIED for us. 

And in 3 days...


He AROSE!


He fulfilled His PROMISE and ROSE from the dead on the third day.


Jesus loves you so much! 

Proof? He gave His life for you. 

He did it so you could be forgiven of your sins. 

He did it so you could have eternal life with Him in Heaven.

He didn't have to. But He chose to.


If you're reading this and don't have a personal relationship with Jesus Christ but would like to... 

It's as simple as ABC.

A - Admit you're a sinner. 

B - Believe Jesus died on the cross and rise on the third day for YOU.

C - Confess your sins and ask Jesus to forgive you of them. 

Ask Jesus to come into your heart and wipe it clean. Ask Him to live with you forever.


Still have questions? Send me an email at enichols85@gmail.com. I'd love to talk with you.




Saturday, April 4, 2015

Lessons

Starting your work day with a clean desk is a nice feeling.

Sometimes there just aren't enough hours in the day...

The majority of the world still has a lot to learn about Autism.

The day a non-verbal child finally speaks a simple word is a monumental occasion.

A bouncy house can keep a 2 1/2 year old occupied for hours and hours.

Candid photos are often better than professional, staged ones.

Spoil a dog long enough and she'll forget she's not human.

You can say you don't care what people think. But it still hurts to hear a hurtful remark.

And then on the opposite end - Hearing a compliment can totally make your day.

At 2 a.m., Walmart is delightfully quiet, calm, and not busy.

Hearing a parent make the decision for a DNR order is tough.

People don't realize how much a visit, a call, an email, a prayer all mean when you're in the hospital.

The unknown in a situation is often the hardest part.

Sometimes laughing is the only way to keep yourself from crying.

A good boss is a gift.

The family of God is huge!

What is it?

So what is it about Senegal that you like so much?

Yesterday I was asked this by a co-worker. When I opened my mouth to answer, it was as if my vocal chords were frozen. 

I finally said, That's a hard one to answer. There's just so many reasons... And she was satisfied with that :)

But it got me thinking. So I decided to actually make a list of what it is that makes me like this country I called "home" for 5 years. And this is what I came up with...

It's terranga - hospitality at its finest.

It's hot and sweet attaya, served with conversations and laughter.

It's a round of greetings that seems to last forever.

It's brightly colored boats hauling in the catch of the day.

It's "flame trees" lining your path.

It's coke from a glass bottle, served with a lime wedge.

It's your neighborhood butik owner keeping an eye out for you and your co-workers, helping you to feel safe.

It's a burger with fries and a fried egg as two of the main ingredients.

It's a colorful ice cream shop that serves a cool refreshing treat on those hot, hot days.

It's fresh fruits and veggies from the vendor down the road.

It's directions containing landmarks such as the french fry store, the guy selling goats for Tabaski, the big pile of watermelons, and the Nescafé cart.

It's a trip to the Fukki Jai, buying clothes for less than a dollar.

It's the sound of goats and sheep constantly announcing their presence.

It's grass huts with mud floors.

It's a crowded market with each vendor asking you to visit his/her shop.

It's lots of dust. ...AKA - nature's natural exfoliant :)

It's a Saturday spent at Ebbetts Field watching softball.

It's baobab trees lining the road.

It's nems, meat stick sandwiches, and bowls of cheb from vendors down the road.

It's obama. ...the ice cream version :)

It's buying fruit, out the window of the car, while going down the highway.

It's a trip through Sandaga. ...on a good day because otherwise this would so not make the list :)

It's losing weight from walking everywhere.

It's finally learning how to cook something from scratch, using all the necessary substitutions. 

It's making the taxi driver smile when you barter for a good price.

It's dinner at the Brazilian Restaurant with a group of friends.

It's a trip to a hotel for the day for a yummy burger and swimming in the pool.

It's little bags of water sold by kids on the street.

It's meeting neighbors, grocery store workers, pastors, and others and carrying on a conversation in French.

It's an appreciation for another culture.

It's car rapides whizzing by, packed to the brim, yet still stuffing in a few more people.

It's a plate of brochettes de lotte avec frites from Le Receif.

It's getting a handmade outfit back from the tailor, made for a fraction of the cost of one from the store.

It's a ride in a horse cart.

It's that smell that hits you the minute you get off the plane.

It's a church no bigger than your living room, overflowing with BELIEVERS hungry for more of God.

It's sitting around a common bowl eating with your (right) hand and having a lively conversation.

It's cute little dirty feet.

It's friendships that stand the test of time.

It's an international community of friends and neighbors that become like family.

It's worshipping with multiple cultures (who don't speak your language) and feeling the Spirit moving like never before.

It's that first church service (done in French) that you actually understood.

It's the Musl*m call to prayer happening 5 times a day. Why? ...because it's a constant reminder to me to pray to the ONE TRUE GOD for the lives of all listening to the call to prayer.

It's the Talibe boy, with nothing, sharing the little you gave him with 10 others.

It's the first time you lead someone to Christ in another language.

It's the hugs.

It's the smiles and the nods.

It's the thank you's and the I love you's.

It's a feeling of being home.

It's feeling homesick when you're away.

It's excitement over going back. ...even if only for a short vacation.


Friday, April 3, 2015

Quotables

While looking for a quote to use in a presentation for work, I came across a dozen or so more that "spoke to me." 

And in the spirit of inspirational wordiness, here we go...












And lastly, I saw this one on Facebook. Unfortunately many people think this April Fool's joke is just soooo hilarious. But they clearly don't think about how much it could hurt someone else...


P.S. Thanks to Google Images for these quotable additions to this blog post :)

Wednesday, April 1, 2015

Wordy Wednesday



I was looking at the wealth of images at Casa de Google and saw the one above and thought it was perfect for this post.

I've had Dakar on my mind a lot lately and as I looked through some pictures the other day, I couldn't help but smile as the memories came flooding back.

Memories like...

1. the GREEN party with my first group of 1st graders


Bless their hearts. My sweet babies that year were incredibly hyperactive. Sitting still, staying quiet, and focusing was EXTREMELY difficult for this crew. ...which meant the majority of them stayed on "red" in terms of behavior most of the time. 

Well, about 6 weeks into school starting they FINALLY had an all (well, almost all) "green" week, so I threw them a Green Party, complete with green food, green art activities, green face paint, and we wore green clothes too! 

It was a blast!

2. Flame trees


Dakar was typically very dry and dusty brown. So seeing these trees in bloom always brightened my day.

3. Friendship


This picture was taken at DA's Olympics one year. These two cuties were headed to their next event and were so happy to be on each other's team. 

4. Burger avec l'oeuf


I love a good hamburger. In fact, I'd say it ranks pretty high up on my list of favorite foods. However, I was a surprised upon biting into my first hamburger in Senegal. Two of the main ingredients are a fried egg and french fries (loaded right into the bun). It took a while to get used to, but it was still super tasty. ...and it always made me smile :)

5. Fishing boats


I loved riding by the coast and seeing the brightly colored fishing boats. This is one thing that I definitely ALWAYS, ALWAYS, ALWAYS think of when I think of Senegal.

6. Baby Goat


I remember being in Saint Louis, Senegal, and snapping this picture. I remember smiling, thinking how this little guy had escaped a grim future since he was probably too small for the sacrifice that his other goat buddies had been forced to become.

7. A student's feet


I'll never forget the little guy who these feet belong to. He has already endured more than any child his age should have had to. He was out of his home culture, out of his element, and away from anything familiar. I didn't speak his language and he didn't speak mine. At first, he "fought" with me almost daily. He totally and completely broke my heart. 

And then one day when I realized... This little guy had stolen my heart. I can honestly say that I have loved every single student that's come through my classroom's doors. But this guy... He was something special. 

It took so much energy and effort (and prayers) to get through to him, that when I finally did, I realized what an incredibly special prize this guy was. When I finally broke through his tough shell to see his true, beautiful self, I realized what an awesome kid he was. 

We may not have understood each other at first. But by the end, he was my buddy, my "assistant" in class. And when he moved away the following year, I cried and cried. 

This child... God sent him as the biggest lesson of my teaching career thus far. And I can't help but smile to think of this sweet little guy!